How Two Foster Kids Beat The Odds And Discovered Healing, Happiness & Love

Season 23, Episode 187

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What happens with two foster youth find healing, happiness, love, and eventually marriage? A beautiful, hope-filled story unfolds!

Justin and Alexis Black are agents of hope. Against many odds, they decided to blaze a new path, and most importantly, they decided to blaze it together.

From their book, Redefining Normal: “Growing up, they didn’t believe they had a future. Together, they are building forever.

Alexis Black persevered through her mother’s death and her father’s imprisonment. And after escaping a long and abusive relationship, the college junior promised her foster parents not to date for at least a year. But when she meets an incoming freshman on the first day of their scholarship program, she feels the world melt away, as though it were only the two of them in the room.

Justin Black lived in the poorest section of Detroit before his parents surrendered him to the foster care system at the age of nine. But when he grabs the chance for better opportunities by pursuing higher education, he can’t help but be drawn to a beautiful third-year student. At first, their past traumas–and their age difference–conspired to complicate their attraction. But the joy each took in the other and eventually conquered those obstacles, and these two survivors journeyed together toward healing.

In a stark and wholehearted true story that shares how two individuals on separate paths found each other, Alexis and Justin merge their course into one full of hope and purpose. And hand-in-hand, with a desire to help others, they learned to reject the abusive patterns of their past, thereby intentionally breaking the cycle of generational violence and unhealthy behaviors.”

A Little More About Justin and Alexis….

Justin and Alexis are award-winning, bestselling authors, speakers, and serial entrepreneurs. Together, they’ve created The Scholarship Expert and The ROSE Empowerment Group to support hundreds of young people. Now, with their new venture, Redefining Normal, they hope to continue the conversation on healthy relationships, mental health, and healing.

How To Connect With Justin and Alexis…

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How Two Foster Kids Beat The Odds And Discovered Healing, Happiness & Love

Season 23, Episode 187
What happens with two foster youth find healing, happiness, love, and eventually marriage? A beautiful, hope-filled story unfolds!

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Mike Berry

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